Queer punks, student parties, Madonna nights, underwear-only clubs, leather or dirty fetishes? Berlin really has a gay party for every type of person. Always happy to make recommendations! Sometimes even quarterly or annually.
The legendary SNAX parties at Berghain, open to gay men only for Easter weekend and again in November, are sex-fueled parties people travel from the world over to attend. More alternative gay parties happen with a bit more frequency.
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I also remember the lengthy arguements Klaus and I had at the beginning of our relationship, when we had to stop to look the word up: Posted 4 Aug I am gay, English, 24, and been living here for almost 2 years now Love is dead in Berlin. Being a slut is simple, finding a long term boyfriend not so much Although I agree that there are many great places in the city and that it is a tolerant place to live, I think your take on Schoeneberg is simplistic, unfair and a more than a bit judgmental.
Also, being over thirty , I have some friends over thirty who have met a partner in Berlin and got married and even done it myself. And heaven forbid we like to even go for a beer now and then in Schoeneberg! When I was 24, I wasn't really into getting super serious and probably would have run from what you described too, but I don't think that makes someone a slut either and who cares if they are for that matter.
Maybe you are coming on a bit strong? Just sayin' As for the OP, I hope the advice above has helped, Berlin is a wonderful city - don't worry too much about "finding the one". I think it will happen when the time's right, no matter where you are: I've done the drunken cycling thing before: But your "Love is dead" in Berlin mantra is not unique to Berlin or even Germany.
It sounds to me more like growing pains as you move further and further from your teens to that dealthly number of 30!
For many people, a big cathartic change happens around 27 years old. Most young guys are sluts because, well, it's call over-abundance of testosterone flying around in a young man's body. In hetero-relationships, the testosterone is counter-balanced by a woman. Get two young men together and there's not a lot of balance going on. The problem I see is when this behavior becomes habitual and and carries on through their 30s, 40s, 50s and yeah, 60s. I've had 3 big relationships in my life--one 5 year after college in a torrid affair with a former classmate, in my 30s, an 8 year that I met in a bar in the Silverlake area of Los Angeles ended up great friends , and my current husband, who I met at a festive dance in Cologne about so years ago the absolute love of my life.
I can assure you, Berlin is not exceptionally unique with it's gay scene. Gays are gay no matter what hideous form of leather shorts they're sporting. There are no magic relationship cities where there is an abundance of Prince Charmings. Love just happens when you're least expecting it--it can happen in Berlin or it can happen in the Schwarzwald.
It's a matter of timing and chance. To the OP. Berlin is like any other big city. If you don't want to be a slut, then don't. There are lots of opportunites and organizations to get involved with that don't involve visiting the dark room. Perhaps you and "harrow" should meet and discuss the topic when you arrive! I actually supposed last night in my drunken state in Villa Rixdorf that Berlin is just trying to re-live the 20's where it was "anything goes"..
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